Challenging times
Nov 6, 2015
Been focusing a lot on the girls.. For the past mths, our priority is on our career while we let the girls be more independent..
They have bonded well n it's lovely to see hw big sis looks after n at times, instruct lil sis around the hse.. N lil sis will follow big sis's instructions but at times will bully n hit big sis..
J has made a great move in his career n we r supportive of it. I know it's not easy of him to get out of his comfort zone.. And am proud of his willingness to blend into a new environment. This is the stage of his life when he shld focus on his career n do his best without much worries abt little children..
While I think I may need to take on a bigger role at home for the girls, another part of me keeps pushing the boundary n moved me further in my job.. I appreciate the support n approvals of the bosses n really feel thankful.
So after not much thoughts, I decided that I might jus do my best.. But my priorities is always the children..
It's not easy but I think ezanne is a responsible girl whom I can let loose a little to let her take charge of her own work.. But mummy will always be around to guide her..
Really hope janelle will follow her big sis n be motivated..
Had a little talk with the girls last nite explaining that daddy n mummy might not make it for certain events cos we r working hard jus like her in sch.. But when we can, we will definitely be there especially when meeting Teachers or for her performance..
From young, they know that mummy n daddy need to work n can't be there all the time.. But we will always try to turn up for sch events n make time for them..
This is what I need them to know.. That we r always there..
Let us be proud of ourselves n work hard!!